Looking back on life

The Gentle Art of Looking Back

December 12, 20251 min read

In a culture obsessed with forward momentum, pausing can feel like a rebellion.

But what if reflection isn’t retreat? What if it’s where clarity begins?

At the end of the year, we often default to lists—what worked, what didn’t, what’s next. But I want to invite something else: a different kind of inventory.

Not a scorecard. A blueprint review.

Start with the Structure

Before we leap into planning, we need to understand what we’re building on.

•What felt aligned this year?

•What patterns repeated—and what truths kept returning?

•Where did effort yield energy, and where did it cost you?

This isn’t about judgment. It’s about design.

Honoring, Not Hustling

Too often we bypass closure in the name of progress. We set goals on top of unresolved seasons. We chase growth without clarity.

But integrity in leadership—and life—comes from reflection.

We need to name what we’ve carried, what we’ve learned, and what we’re ready to leave behind.

Try This:

Find 20 minutes. Turn off the noise. Ask:

•What was worth the effort?

•What surprised me with its grace?

•What am I ready to release, for real?

You don’t have to capture it all. Just listen. Note the truths that rise to the surface.

Your End-of-Year Guide

To help you pause with purpose, I created the Reflection & Intention Guide. It’s not about planning faster. It’s about designing wiser.

Inside, you’ll find prompts to:

• Honor who you’ve been

• Clarify what matters now

• Choose a word to guide 2026

This isn’t a worksheet. It’s a compass.

To what’s next — with clarity,

Christine

Explore Further:

Subscribe to The Alignment Letter

Watch: The Power of the Pause

Download: Reflection & Intention Guide

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